After some research we've found that this may achieve the desired results:
<action application="set" data="rtp_manual_rtp_bugs=FLUSH_JB_ON_DTMF"/>
<action application="set" data="jitterbuffer_msec=60"/>
<action application="set" data="sip_jitter_buffer_during_bridge=true"/>

We will post back with the results after testing.

Sources:
http://lists.freeswitch.org/pipermail/freeswitch-users/2016-June/121194.html
http://lists.freeswitch.org/pipermail/freeswitch-users/2016-July/121356.html


From: FreeSWITCH-users <freeswitch-users-bounces@lists.freeswitch.org> on behalf of Shaun Stokes <shaun.stokes@itec-support.co.uk>
Sent: 13 September 2018 09:03:20
To: FreeSWITCH Users Help
Subject: [Freeswitch-users] How to drop Inband DTMF tones while retaining Outofband DTMF tones?
 

Hi All,


Is it possible for FreeSWITCH to drop Inband DTMF tones from the RTP\SRTP stream on an inbound call from a carrier so that this isn't audible in the call recording while still retaining DTMF Outofband (RFC2833) in the SIP messages? If not, how could this be achieved?


Thanks,

Shaun